When I first conceived this idea for a blog, I thought "oh it'll be one of those funny, hahaha type blogs where people would go 'oh yeah that guy REALLY hates kids" --- but then I thought about the person I want to be, and I don't WANT to hate kids. Right now, wherever I am, wherever I do, I see children --- big children, small children, black children , white children and they all make my skin crawl. I may have a serious problem. Because my wife wants kids and I do to, in an abstract kind o...

Okay so last night I'm watching Stone Phillips do some special on the Harris'. A nice little family who had SIX babies at one time. Why is it that every time I see one of these stories the parents usually seem to already have a kid but are having a hard time conceiving again so they decide to spend the first kids college funds on fertility treatments and BOOM! now there are four, five, six babies in there. And they always say "oh, it's such a miracle from God." No, no, my friend, it would be ...

"If you could be home for the holidays with family and friends anywhere in the world, where would you be?" I would be in Florida. My family lives in Florida. Her family lives in Florida. So I would be there. Probably staying with one of them and being entirely uncomfortable. I try to have fun when visiting my relatives but it is not easy for me. I'm sure for a lot of people this question would bring up the warm fuzzies. And maybe I'm a tad ungrateful. Because I do still have both of my pare...